um, that comment was from Ricks_toy. dunno why blo...

2009-06-29T22:49:27.946-05:00

um, that comment was from Ricks_toy. dunno why blogger isn't showing my nick.

i think that "what marriage is" is just as persona...

2009-06-29T22:48:43.241-05:00

i think that "what marriage is" is just as personal as trying to say what slavery is. out of all the married couples i know, i doubt any of them would define it the same way. hell, some of them, i doubt both people involved would define it the same way.

my views on marriage have changed dramatically since i walked down the aisle the first time, and i admit, i'm more than a little jaded when it comes to the whole concept. i won't bore you with all of the changes or the thoughts themselves (since i don't want to hijack your journal), but the biggest, most pertinent realization that i've come to about it --

its the journey that matters. its having the time with the person you love to decide what you want marriage to mean - and especially -what you want YOUR marriage to mean.

there's a lifetime ahead of you. enjoy the trip.

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um, that comment was from Ricks_toy. dunno why blo...

i think that "what marriage is" is just as persona...