<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8578044896328738987.post3570087416441312657..comments</id><updated>2009-05-16T15:58:18.737-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on gracefully seeking perfection: feeling outshined</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.imperfectgrace.com/feeds/3570087416441312657/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8578044896328738987/3570087416441312657/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imperfectgrace.com/2009/05/feeling-outshined.html'/><author><name>grace</name><email>grace@imperfectgrace.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8578044896328738987.post-7077079563986791578</id><published>2009-05-16T15:58:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-16T15:58:00.000-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm sorry you feel like that.  Being that Zach and...</title><content type='html'>I'm sorry you feel like that.  Being that Zach and I are about to take that plunge, I am a little nervous.  Luckily he travels half of every week (never thought I'd be the type of girl to call that "lucky" but here I am!) so we pretty much always miss each other.  And the living together won't seem like the end of sleeping in my bed alone, since it really won't be.  ALSO since my last live-together relationship was a total disaster, it HAS to be better than that.  But enough about me.  I wonder if since you guys skipped living in the same city, but separately, the living together seems that much more stifling?  Or not stifling, but...less exotic?  Erotic?  Exciting?!  I don't know.  Too bad where you live isn't exactly a jumpin' town, otherwise I'd suggest you guys do a Guys' Night, Girls' Night thing and spend some time apart.  Maybe you should just move here!</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8578044896328738987/3570087416441312657/comments/default/7077079563986791578'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8578044896328738987/3570087416441312657/comments/default/7077079563986791578'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.imperfectgrace.com/2009/05/feeling-outshined.html?showComment=1242507480000#c7077079563986791578' title=''/><author><name>Alisonian</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/09462834153432320618</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.imperfectgrace.com/2009/05/feeling-outshined.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8578044896328738987.post-3570087416441312657' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/8578044896328738987/posts/default/3570087416441312657' type='text/html'/></entry></feed>